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The Tug of War Lesson book cover - a watercolor illustration of a girl and Norbert sharing a gentle moment, by Susan Higgins

Children's Picture Book · Ages 4-8

The Tug of War Lesson

The Tug of War Lesson is a gentle story about emotional wisdom, kindness, and the quiet strength it takes to choose peace over struggle. First shared as a storytime video with Norbert, this was the story that made viewers immediately ask where they could buy the book. It became the spark that turned storytime into a published children's book.

Written for children and meaningful to the grown-ups who read with them, the story offers a warm and reassuring path through big feelings. It invites readers to pause, notice what is pulling at them, and remember that not every struggle needs to be held.

Best for ages 4 to 8, and for older children or adults who love gentle read-alouds with heart.

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The Tug of War Lesson Parent/Teacher's Edition cover by Susan Higgins

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The Tug of War Lesson: Parent/Teacher's Edition

The same beloved story, now with activities, discussion prompts, and tools designed for parents, teachers, and caregivers. A companion edition that helps children explore the themes of kindness, emotional wisdom, and choosing peace in deeper, hands-on ways.

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The lesson, in action.

"Don't pull the rope. If you don't pull, there's no fight."

Norbert knows both sides of this lesson. He is very committed to his rope toy. But he is also the reason the story exists -- because on the morning the idea arrived, he was right there beside the words, listening.

Norbert playing tug of war with a rope toy by the pool, Mama Sue in the background
Norbert gripping the rope toy, close up portrait showing his focused expression
Norbert pulling the rope toy with determination, close up side view

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These stories are made to be shared

Whether you are reading to a child at bedtime, sharing a story with a classroom, or sitting with a book yourself on a quiet afternoon, these stories are meant to be experienced together. Read them out loud. Talk about them. Let them sit with you a while.

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